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Some Do's and Don'ts to Consider

Prepare yourself and have a purpose for the reading

Don’texpect the psychic to make your decisions for you.

Every psychic cringes when s/he asks a client what they want to know about and the answer is ‘the future.'

 

The future is a very broad subject, this vague reply makes it hard for a reader to define the scope of the reading and focus in on what’s important.

 

Nothing may come in clearly and there may be a lot of fuzzy concepts floating around that are hard for the psychic to get clarity on.

 

So, prepare a list of questions, and then prepare yourself.

 

Clear your mind of the cares and worries of the day.

 

Clear your heart and release will of your projections and expectations - those “wants and wishes” that are so important to you can bounce back in a reading as fact, when it’s only your wishing so hard... 

We’re often asked for lucky numbers and the most fortunate days for marriages, births, business ventures and so on. Hahaha, that joke never gets old... not!

 

Numerologists and astrologists can give some good guidance for this. But if we were able to make such accurate predictions off the top of our heads, I can assure you, we wouldn’t be working so hard!

 

Intuitives can provide good insights and information - guidance - second opinions - but they can't run your life and the serious professionals certainly don’t want to.

 

Use a reading as an additional source of information, then take your power and use your own instincts and intuition to know how best and when to apply what you learned.

 

You will only get the information that Divinity wants you to know, a reading will not fix your life just like reading a diet book will not automatically make you thinner. Be realistic.

 

 

Choose the time carefully.

Don’t expect a serious reading, unless you’re taking it seriously.

Avoid doing a reading when you’re depressed ... unless that’s what you want the reading to be focused on.

 

While a reading in the midst of a crisis can be useful in helping you figure out how to deal with it, it’s definitely not the best time for a reading, since anything that shows up at the moment will be influenced by the crisis.

 

It’s best to wait until the dust has settled before you take a longer-range view of your life... If you do decide to get a reading when life seems difficult, be prepared to hear some information you may not want to hear. You may have some big changes to make in order to get your life back in order.

 

Before the reading, take a few deep breaths, ground yourself, and try to generate some loving peaceful energy around you. 

If you’ve been taking alcohol or drugs, it can be very difficult for even the best readers to wade through the fog to find the clear answers you’re wanting.

 

If you’ve just eaten a big meal, had a fight with your partner, or you’re not feeling well, these also can impact the quality of the reading - and the tone.

 

So, even if you’re doing the reading “just for fun,” take it a little seriously: calm and clear yourself, even for a few minutes, before you sit down for the reading so your energy is strong and balanced.

 

Remember, you are getting Divine guidance...this is a gift! If you have a negative attitude then the messages that come through to the psychic may be negative also. 

 

 

Give some feedback

Don’t...play "Stump the Psychic game

A reader can't work in a vacuum, we need a little feedback, too.

 

If the reader is accurate (as far as you know), then let them know. If you feel he or she is on the wrong track, speak up.

 

Of course, what you thought you wanted to discuss may never come up. The issue you asked about may never develop or die out.

 

If a reader is getting strong perceptions about some other area, he will let you know.

 

Expect to be surprised. If you are clear and direct with the reader about what’s going on in your life and what you want to know right now, you’ll have a much better chance of getting an accurate reading that provides you with good guidance and direction.

This is not the way to get a good reading and is a waste of valuable time and money. It will often put even the best psychics off so that they lose their enthusiasm to read you.

 

I definitely encourage people to be somewhat skeptical—especially when someone is offering curse removal, but it’s truly a waste of time to hide your wedding rings and change your names or withhold information about your circumstances.

 

However, if you want the reader to focus on the future, give him or her a little background so the time spent is not getting validation on what you already know. 

 

Time goes very quickly in a reading and you may have the psychic spend most of it going over the past.

 

What should your expectations be?

 

Don't say too much!!

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How much of a part should you play in a reading? The most important thing is to be a good listener. Don't interrupt too often.

 

Psychics work  from a flow of ideas, from often fleeting impressions. We have to concentrate to maintain that flow. If there are too many breaks, information gets lost.

 

And, don't take what your psychic says as gospel—you have great influence over future events!

 

God/dess gave everyone the right to free choice--for better or worse. The idea is to avoid pitfalls.

 

Accidents or unpleasant incidents seen in a reading don't have to happen.

 

Through awareness and alertness, you can alter your direction, so that the "future" a psychic predicted may never come to pass, since you've changed the present.

When clients want to know when they are going to meet their “soul mate” the answer can vary from vague, to very detailed.

 

Unfortunately not everyone’s life purpose includes a permanent “soul mate” they will  remain with for life.

 

If one comes up in a reading, expect a general description and enough specific details so you’ll recognize your future “significant other” when the time is right.

 

A reader may say you are going to meet someone at a wedding, party, doctor’s office, etc, but don’t think that’s written in stone either. Sometimes fate has people’s paths cross a few times before they finally notice each other.

 

Sometimes a name doesn't come through. This is because some names are very common. What if you were told you soul mate was named “Bob.” Would you wonder if every Bob you met was the right one? Of course you would. And you may end up with the wrong one! 

 

 

 

 

Not What You Planned to Hear? Forget the Curse Con Game

You wanted to know about your finances but were instead given messages for personal growth, romance or family. This is because the information you receive during a reading is what you need to know vs. what you want to know.

 

The reader is more like a translator or messenger, passing on the messages to you and can’t direct what information is given. They must pass on the information received in the hopes that you will understand it sometime in the future.

 

If your reader is delivering bad news, they should also be deliver guidance on how to cope, what the purpose of this situation is, how you can avoid or minimize it in the future and what the positive effects of this event will be in the long term.

 

If the information given is negative or very dramatic, take it with a grain of salt, refuse to be scared by the doom and gloom, and, don’t go back to that reader again!

 

Every good reader is also a healer and sessions are intended to be healing experiences, so if you don’t come away feeling okay, then it probably wasn’t a good reading or you need to go back and ask for clarity.

Not all readers are genuine psychics and not all psychics are nice people—be careful! There are a lot of con-artists out there who want to lighten your wallet.

 

The following advice may help keep you from being deceived by someone planting fears. Don't believe the routine about someone doing evil against you or a curse being placed on you or your family.

 

 Anytime a "psychic" tells you such nonsense, recognize this person as a fraud. Remember, you are free to end a reading at any time.

 

Lately I have been hearing a lot about "curses." Clients will often ask, "Do I have a curse on me? I went to a psychic and she said, “Someone is working evil against you but I can help you. Give me ninety dollars (or some such outrageous price) and come back next week for a reading."

 

I have run into a few people that have paid thousands of dollars to these charlatans!

 

Don't believe a word of it—the only person working evil against you is someone who would tell you such nonsense.

 

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Readings only show possible outcomes, not a definite fate. We are all gifted with free will—I will happily show you to your path, but only you can take the first step.

 

Remember, these are suggestions—no destiny is written in stone. Your free will, along with, to some extent, the free will of others, determines your outcome.

Readings are a wonderful way to get guidance in your life but God and benevolent spirits are not going to live your life for you and give you a step by step guide on where to go and what to do.

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How much of a part should you play in a reading? The most important thing is to be a good listener. Don't interrupt too often. Psychics work  from a flow of ideas. .

 

Whether you are getting a reading from me or someone else it's helpful to know how to get a beneficial reading.

 

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